In today’s episode, we are discussing how to avoid comparing yourself to other creatives. Comparison syndrome is toxic and can be pretty common among designers… So without further ado, let’s get into the show!
Show Notes for This Episode:
[1:20] @CathyHogan_Illustration asks how to feel confident and not compare.
[2:00] Dustin believes he struggles with comparison more than most.
[3:30] How it feels to compare yourself with others.
[4:00] Our minds can build narratives that back up our false feelings.
[5:00] Fearing all your hard work will evaporate.
[6:00] Remember we are all extremely unique and can’t be duplicated.
[7:20] Dustin talks about his early career nemesis, Ian Barnard.
[8:30] Ian shares what was really happening on the other side of Dustin’s fears.
[9:00] What Ian saw when he looked at Dustin’s product releases.
[10:00] Lisa believes it’s healthy to see your rivals if you use it as a motivator.
[11:00] Dustin explains why you need to be careful using others as motivators.
[12:00] How Dustin vilified Ian.
[13:00] Don’t cheat yourself. Create friends, not villains.
[14:00] Ian talks about a friend he follows that he finds amazing.
[15:00] No one can mimic your backstory. Embrace that.
[16:00] Brand is harder to compete on than commodity.
[17:00] Getting ripped off as an artist pulls your focus.
[18:00] It’s hard to not compare yourself to someone who is ripping off your work.
[19:00] Copycats will always be behind you.
[21:00] You can never be replicated.
[23:00] Creativity is an extension of one’s soul.
[24:10] People who copy you will always struggle because it’s not natural for them.
[25:20] Comparison breeds innovation.
[26:00] You need to turn the ship harder than others have the courage to.
[27:00] Think outside the box.
[28:00] Instagram can be a comparison blessing and a curse.
[29:00] Ian sometimes finds himself comparing himself to Stephan Kunz.
[30:00] Why Pinterest can be a better choice for browsing inspiration.
[31:00] Pinterest is a more relaxing scroll.
[32:00] Find your happy online space.
[33:00] The Big 3 – Instagram, Twitter and Facebook.
[34:00] FOMO can be so subtle that you don’t even realize it’s happening.
[35:40] Put hurdles in front of bad habits and remove them for good ones.
[36:00] Discover the best ways to manage yourself.
[37:40] Tom gives us a quick episode overview.
[38:00] Be an ostrich. Lean into your uniqueness. Competitors are not machines.
[39:00] Don’t shy away from collaborations.
[40:00] That’s a wrap.
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